This situation comes in everyones life and we get so confused about what to buy for her.HERE I TRIED TO EXPLAIN HOPE IT HELPS!!!
It's been ages and you haven't gifted anything to your girl. Reason? You have no idea what you should gift her.
Here's some quick and easy advice:
Think about what all she Likes
Pay attention to what she likes to do when the two of you are together. What movies she likes to see,
what kind of clothes she likes to wear, what kind of foods she gorges
on, what are her favourite colours, her intellectual inclinations, the
music she likes to listen etc. This will give you an idea about her
general tastes in life. If you think you are one of those who find it
hard to judge people and ascertain their likes and dislikes, then go
ahead and ask her. But don't make it sound too obvious to her that you
want to buy a gift for her.
Think about the kind of Person she is
Is she a brand addict or all she cares is that she should look good in
whatever she wears? Or is she one of those who hardly care? Or is she a
tomboyish girl who enjoys climbing trees and running around bare feet?
Is she obsessed with chocolates?
Try and explore her inherent nature and thought process. Try to
determine the things that give her true happiness. At the same time
think about what she does in her spare time. Maybe she likes sketching,
so you can get her a sketching set. Or maybe she likes gaming! So you
can buy her a PSP.
Also, it'll be worth doing some brainstorming. Try to recall past
conversations to see if she ever gave you any hints about presents or
stuff she would like you to buy. Think, if she has been planning to
acquire something for a long time, something which has been on her
wishlist since ages.
Talking to Other People
Get the journalist in you to do some work. Talk to her friends.
You can even talk to her mother. Usually a friend or a parent can have a
really good sense of her tastes because of knowing her for a long time
and would be more than happy to help.
Go Out and Get it
Once you've done enough research,
it's time to go out and procure the gift. Do not spend months in just
doing the research. At the most, take a week's time for that. You have
to decide upon some thing or the other. Once decided, go out and buy the
gift. Get it nicely wrapped. Attaching a personal note with it is
strongly recommended and she is sure to love it.
Sometimes, the Simplest Things Work
It is not mandatory that you have to buy fancy jewellry for her or some
other expensive stuff. Sometimes, even the most simple things can do
wonders. Buy her a simple flower, and if you are close to where she
lives, leave it on her step. Also leave a little note saying something
like "I'm thinking of you" or other nice things. Even if the girl
doesn't like flowers, she will like that fact that you're thinking of
her and think it's kind of romantic.
No Cash at all
Whatever you do, please don't give her money. If you can't figure out
what to gift her, then give her a shopping voucher for a good store but
no money, for Good Lord's sake!
Experimentation is Welcome
If you think that usual stuff like clothes, CDs, etc. can be quite
boring, then there's no harm in walking an extra mile and doing
something different. You can get a t-shirt designed for her or get
custom made handicrafts. You can gift her a vacation to the hills, a hand-painted portrait, etc. Such things are sure to excite her and make her fall in love with you all over again.
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